A random ridiculous looking Seiko to start things off.
Went on another short hiatus without notice but today is not the day to do explanations.
And there will not be an explanation, anyhow, haha.
Today's (actually it's night time right now) popthoughts topic: petnames.
In this post, the definition of petnames are lovey dovey cutesy (sometimes digusting) name for the other half. If I must say, the most commonly used are "baby" and the recently much crazed "bae". Honestly I still don't get the bae yet, though it was already explained everywhere on the internet that bae = before anyone else.
I don't know, but when someone calls their love interest bae it sounds rather playful and not serious enough lololol.
I do use bae for punny jokes hahahaha. Perhaps I'm very easily humored.
That aside, I suddenly thought of a history of an ex and I. We used to address each other as "baby" or in short, "bi". It was too bloody common, if I must add. Everyone's using it till it lost the supposed sweetness that petname carry.
We used to quarrel frequently and on really serious arguments, I would change his contact name on my phone from "baby" with many emoticons to his own name with nothing, like you've lost your speciality in my heart man hahahahahahahahaaaaa.
So childish it seems right now but such fond memories.
Well, the feeling of changing the petname away due to arguments and changing it away because of breaking up is entirely different. Not that I still miss that but it just suddenly hit me that the person you're so emotionally and physically (maybe) intimate with can really become a stranger under the correct circumstances.
Like man, he is really Adam* now. He's no longer my baby. (*name has been changed, HAHAHA. If I'm named Eve I'll surely find a boyfriend named Adam.)
It's so freaking amazing, yet pretty unbelievable. Do I even make sense??
Every post I'll doubt if I made any sense at all, or it's something only I can understand haha. If so, I'm sorry but I can't do shit.
But y'know, we're made to survived. We'll all move on and be able to get over it.
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